#WW – Recognising talents in our children

I’d be the first to admit that my little girl ain’t good at math and is not a proficient reader at this moment. But learning to recognise the fact that all kids progress at their own pace is really key to appreciating them for who they are.

Today I was reminded of this when my little girl asked to paint – she didn’t have school today because the morning session’s having the Parent-Teacher-Meeting.

Well, so you see, she’s not great at math or reading, but she rocks at art – she painted this all by herself, shading, blending and all:

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The ‘I love you, sweetheart’ challenge

Last Friday, I came across something really interesting on Facebook and I thought to share it with you:

A group of married women gathered at a seminar on how to live in loving relationships with their husbands. The women were asked: ‘How many of you love your husbands?’

All the women raised their hands.
Then they were asked: ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’
Some said today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember…..
The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective husbands: “I love you, sweetheart.”
Then the women were told to exchange the phones and read aloud the responding text messages.
Here are the replies:

1. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
2. What now? Did you crash the car again?
3. I don’t understand what you mean?
4. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time!!!
5. ?!?
6. Don’t beat about the bush! Just tell me how much you need?
7. Am I dreaming?????
8. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, you will die today…!!!
9. I asked you not to drink anymore!!

and the best one

10. Who is this?

After reading this, I thought to myself, now when was the last time I said ‘I love you’ to my husband and … I just couldn’t really pinpoint when. I know it wasn’t that long ago, but yup, not being able to remember when I said it kinda said it all.

I picked up my phone and sent him the exact text that the women at the seminar were supposed to send. I paused before I sent it out. I had never called him ‘sweetheart’. That was rather weird and he would probably be wondering what happened (to me).

I decided to send it out anyway after pausing for a grand total of 20 seconds and I waited for the response eagerly. It was late in the evening, about time I hoped he would be back soon from work, and it was the usual time that I would text a naggy message to hurry him home. Ah, but that day, instead of a time-to-come-home message, it was a lovey-dovey one. Now just what would he think?

Usually he’d take forever to reply with a ‘ok, leaving now’ or ‘ok, need another 30minutes to complete something’ then of course 30minutes becomes at least 45minutes.

This time, he promptly replied within 2 minutes with, ‘I luv you lots too dear. Why the sudden burst?’

Well, the whole thing was kinda fun and I refused to tell him why until he got home. But I thought it was a nice reminder to not take each other for granted despite being married for years – something that is easily forgotten when almost all my time and attention are spent on the kids and his, on work.

And yesterday, I was in for a surprise when I received a text during his work hours that read, ‘I love you sweetheart’. Now he had not sent me a lovey-dovey text from work in a long while! I guess the reminder on Friday kinda helped. icon smile The I love you, sweetheart challenge

So when was the last time you told your spouse you love him/her? Take the challenge today (and see if you get hilarious results too)!

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#Flashback Friday: The hospital packing list – the Mom vs. Dad versions

Can you remember what you wanted to pack in your hospital bag before the BIG day? I remember packing mine extremely early in anticipation for #1 while I took my own sweet time to pack when I was expecting #2. Well, a fortnight ago, Moore from Katie sent me a pic of what she and her husband wanted in the hospital bag and it was so cute that I was inspired to make my own, so here it is!:

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His Must-haves:

1. toothbrush (and toothpaste): I had to pack in the toothpaste for him or he’d not have brought it. He said he didn’t need it. Yah right.

2. jacket: Well, he was going to stay over with me and I told him to bring along some comfortable slacks too but no, only a jacket is needed, the minimalist said, and then promptly went home to get changed.

3. video cam: we thought that we’d be able to videotape the birth but after three days and two nights of waiting, a failed induction and an emergency c-section later, we realised that the video cam wasn’t very necessary.

4. Camera: And of course the techie had to bring along the camera as well! ok, this was a lot more useful!

MY Must-haves:

1. IC and hospitalisation docs: these were the first things that got packed in. Simple and straightforward enough.

2. Breast pads: I thought I’d need them once I gave birth. Sigh. Didn’t quite happen while I was at the hospital. But I brought them again when I had #2 coz I was very sure I’d need them as I nursed through pregnancy – and this time round, at least I was right!

3. Nursing bra: The thing about giving birth is you have so many expectations of what happens after you pop. This is another one of those things I thought I’d need, but it turned out that nah, I went braless all the time I was at the hospital coz they needed to check on the boobs etc.

4. Disposable undies: Yah, the hospital provides these but fortunately I brought my own coz those they provided were too huge. icon razz #Flashback Friday: The hospital packing list   the Mom vs. Dad versions

5. Toiletries bag: I was very sure I’d need to wash my face and brush my teeth and you know, just feel like a human being again. And no, I didn’t wear makeup for my delivery – or after, just thought you might wanna know. I wasn’t a makeup person at all when I had my two darlings and getting through a difficult labour the first time round meant that looking good was really the very very last thing on my mind when I think about having a baby!

6. Maternity pads: I was told to buy the loop type by some well-meaning people – but who in the world knows how to tie those things except the nurses? Well, in the end, being the first time mom back then, I bought the loop ones but eventually gave them away and stuck with the normal adhesive ones (no pun intended) icon smile #Flashback Friday: The hospital packing list   the Mom vs. Dad versions

7. Receiving suit and swaddle: This was the highlight of the hospital bag! I packed and re-packed this many times over – just looking at the receiving suit brought sooo much anticipation!

8. Diapers: Wasn’t sure if the diapers provided by the hospital would fit, so I brought my own stash – but duh. I have no idea what made me think that what I brought would fit.

Well, so as you can see, the number of items in my list is double of my hubby’s but I think I was already quite a minimalist – no extra clothes or make-up, and I even wore flip flops to the hospital so that I need not bring an extra item. Hehe…

What did you pack in your hospital bag?

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Potato cod balls

I’ve been down with a nasty bug and nursing the two kids back to health over the past 3 weeks. I’m so glad that I have so many food blog posts which I’ve done up but not yet published because these would really help fill in the gap while I’m trying to get back to my normal self. Any new posts you see in the next few days would also have been pre-written at least a week ago. icon smile Potato cod balls

So yes, back to the topic of this special dish I made. I was quite bored with cooking cod in the usual way the other day and I decided to challenge myself to come up with something new. And so here’s the outcome!:

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potato cod balls

This can be quite time-consuming to make but take heart that these can be prepared and frozen and fried the next day and paired with fruits, it’s a complete meal on its own! icon smile Potato cod balls

 Potato cod ballsMy little boy is a super huge fan of this dish! My little girl however was down with stomach upset that day when I made it… anyway, so here’s the recipe!:

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Serves: 6-8
 

Ingredients
  • 3 egg sized russet potatoes
  • 80g cod fillet
  • 1-2 teaspoons salt
  • a couple of dashes of ground black pepper
  • a couple of dashes of garlic powder
  • a few dashes of unsalted mixed herbs
  • 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 2 eggs
  • plain flour
  • breadcrumbs
  • water
  • oil
Dipping sauce (optional):
  • 2 tablespoons apricot/ orange marmalade jam
  • 2 teaspoons golden/ maple syrup (optional)
  • 2 tablespoons hot water

Instructions
  1. Peel the potatoes and dice them.
  2. Bring some water to boil in a pot.
  3. Add 1 teaspoon of salt to the water.
  4. Place the diced potato in when the water boils and cook till potato is tender (15-20min).
  5. Meanwhile, dice the cod fillet.
  6. When the potatoes are cooked, sieve out the potatoes and mash with a potato masher.
  7. While the potato is still hot, add in the butter, black pepper, garlic powder, ½-1 teaspoon salt and mixed herbs and mix well.
  8. Add the diced cod to the mashed potato and mix well then place the mixture in the fridge for at least half an hour to set.
  9. Meanwhile, prepare the dipping sauce. Mix all the ingredients for the sauce and set it aside.
  10. After the potato-cod mixture has set, take about 1-2 teaspoons and roll it into a small ball. Repeat the process (you should yield 25-30balls).
  11. Get three bowls for the flour, beaten eggs and breadcrumbs.
  12. Coat the ball with flour, egg and breadcrumbs (in that order). Repeat process for remaining balls.
  13. Heat oil for frying the balls. To reduce the amount of oil used, the oil should only cover half of each ball rather than submerging the whole ball in oil.
  14. Flip the ball over when the underside turns golden brown.
  15. Drain and serve with dipping sauce (optional).

Notes
1. For a complete meal on the go, serve with fruits like strawberries/ grapes/ blueberries.
2. Potato cod balls can be prepared the day before and fried the next day.

 

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{Review} The first Singapore-specific toddler vocabulary questionnaire

Recently while I was drafting a blog post on my boy’s monthly progress (he is officially 19 months old!), noting down his milestones and improvements made in speech, I came across an interesting site - Abbott Nutrition Toddler Vocabulary Questionnaire, specifically for toddlers aged 16 to 30 months (as their database is based on standards for children aged 17.5 – 20.5 months and 24.5 – 27.5 months).

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Naturally I was very excited about this questionnaire as I believe this is the first Singapore-specific questionnaire for parents to find out their toddler’s level of language development against local norms for expressive vocabulary. Since my boy falls nicely into the targeted age group, I quickly started on the questionnaire by filling in my details and his basic details:

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You only need to fill in your details once. Should you want to re-do the questionnaire, or fill it for another child in that age range, you only need to key in your child’s particulars to start working on the questionnaire.

The questionnaire is based on the Toddler Language Development Study initiated by Abbott Nutrition. This is the first Asian study on language development norms for expressive vocabulary in bilingual children, where a total of 1,503 children in Singapore were involved in the study (855 children aged 18-20 months and 648 children aged 25-27 months).

With a background in linguistics and having learnt about language acquisition at university, I would say that I am rather impressed that this questionnaire actually covers a whole range of vocabulary items in order to get a holistic view of the child’s range of vocabulary. I will post the screen shots of some parts of the questionnaire to illustrate that this isn’t just any questionnaire but one that has had much thought put into crafting it.

This online questionnaire requires you to choose two languages that your tot speaks (options include English, Chinese and Malay), and will take about 20 to 40 minutes of your time (that’s how extensive the range of vocab is!) so make sure you set aside some time to do this as there is a time-out feature which means that you can’t start the survey and then go off to run an errand and come back and hope to continue from where you left off. Making sure that I finish the whole questionnaire in one sitting enables me to really concentrate on recalling what my little tot can say!

At the end of the questionnaire, you will be able to print out the results page with recommendations to help support your child’s vocabulary development or save it as a PDF document, but we’ll get to that later. Meanwhile, here are some examples of what you can expect in the questionnaire.

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Simple verbs (action words) that are more pertinent to a tot’s life

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Food that a tot is likely to eat or be exposed to

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Where it is easier to work on an all-English list first followed by Chinese/Malay as there may not be exact equivalents in the languages, the list of words will be split up for you to work on them easily

There is also thematic vocabulary:

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After the questionnaire is completed, you will receive the results which should look something like this:

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The results would indicate the total number of words you have indicated that your child can speak and how he fares in comparison to his peers, based on the study that was initiated by Abbott Nutrition

Apart from just telling you your child’s ‘results’, you will also receive reading tips to further develop your child’s vocabulary, so it’s not simply an exercise in collating your child’s vocabulary!:

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Nutrition tips are also given as adequate nutrition is crucial in a toddler’s overall development:

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Recommendations for diet and links for further reading on toddler nutrition

Even if you do not have a printer, you can still keep your child’s results by saving it as a PDF document (just click on ‘Convert to PDF’) and it can double up as a keepsake as well! icon smile {Review} The first Singapore specific toddler vocabulary questionnaire

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I really enjoyed the process of completing the questionnaire as I had time to really think through what my little boy has managed to pick up so far (and certainly, he’s come a long way!). Although the results of this questionnaire may not be fully representative of your child’s language abilities at the moment, it is quite a good gauge, given the extensive list of vocabulary items you have to go through. The limitations of this questionnaire would obviously be that there are only two other languages (Chinese and Malay) apart from English, hence it may not be useful for everybody and given the extensive nature of the English language, it is impossible to capture every single word that a toddler would know or be exposed to. Nevertheless, it was a fun process and I would certainly encourage others to access this questionnaire to find out your toddler’s level of language development! Note that all children progress at different rates, please seek professional advice if you have any concerns about your child’s development progress.

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